Can we have a perfect and romantic relationship without intimacy?
I wonder hor, is intimacy an euphemism for just “sex”?
Well I know our Asian culture emphasize intimacy as mainly the context of ones sexual relationships.
Maybe that’s why porn or “Kobe Tai” was born, *smirk*
Well I kinda goggled online and intimacy is defined as;
1: close or warm friendship; “the absence of fences created a mysterious intimacy in which no one knew privacy” [syn: familiarity, closeness]
2: a usually secretive or illicit sexual relationship [syn: affair, affaire, liaison, involvement, amour] 3: a feeling of being intimate and belonging together; “their closeness grew as the night wore on” [syn: closeness]
Chim eh .. it not only refer to any sexual content, but more of a relationship functionality between couples.
Most definition I read doesn’t describe HOW TO BECOME INTIMATE though.
To me intimacy can be in the form of the smallest things such as holding hands, an evening walk in the sunset or a lingering kiss.
One also cannot do it alone, but both partners need to work on it to become intimate
I came across a few online article while goggling and one article said, some married couple have known each other for years and yet still never be truly intimate.
Nah, that’s not suited for me.
In my opinion, there definitely has to be intimacy, as without it, the relationship I believe is already on the rocks
Well I hope everyone is getting intimate with their partners


















