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To think of it, most of my dates and relationships are with ladies who are usually younger than me. The widest age-gap between us, it was like a decade apart. Hahaha, yes 10 years!
And yes I’ve dated someone who is older than me, but …
Not that I don’t want to or have anything against a lady who is older than me when dating, but it’s just that I never find it appealing .
Is it because I’m cheekopek and attracted to young pretty little things only? … I beg to differ eh if you think I’m likewise hor!
No worries guys, I think it’s more of biological. Studies have shown that “guys are simply expressing an evolutionary acquired trait”.
Martin Fieder and Susanne Huber at the University of Vienna examined a database of more than 10,000 men and women and discovered that the most successful couples were those where the man is between four and six years older than the woman.
I just know that going out with some who is slightly younger than me feels right rather than going out with someone who is older than me.
And most of the time I observed, that the ladies also seek someone who is older. Am I right ladies?
Only a handful of my lady friends are married or dating some who are younger than them.
I think to the ladies, they seek some who is somewhat mature and comparable of their maturity level.
Being that you’re girls, they mature faster than the boys, they seek someone who can nurture them, teach them, or have an intelligent conversation.
Not some young lad of their age who seems uninteresting and have not seen the real world.
Look at Jack Nicholson or Roman Abramovich, the ladies just love them. You don’t need to be a pretty face eh. Of course, the latter is a billionaire, but still it just shows mature men are more stable and in position to spend money on you.
I’m glad lah, there’s still hope for me. Hahaha.
But ladies don’t start ditching your young boyfriends for grandpops, at times the age doesn’t represent a person maturity level.
So there you go … ladies, do you think older men are perfect partners?
There’s no such thing as a perfect partner, but I guess if I were a girl, I’d probably want to look for an older man, simply because the maturity, financial stability and the ability is more likely to be found in an older man.
Not that age matters, really. Some younger guys can have all those qualities too.
bro, if you’re a girl … hmm thats a scary thought :p
but i get what you’re trying to say
but i still believe younger lads is still inexperienced in some areas
I had my fair share in love life with guys at my age and older.. and I still prefer older guys .. and my current one, he somehow gave me the sense of securities that a lady need in a guy on every aspects.. :) and Im thankful for that.. :)
awww well cherish that dude :-)
i think older guys looks a lot sexier. wakakaka. maybe because they look more matured. and yeah, have to agree with moby. but dating someone a lot older can sometimes lead to a lot of communication problems. i used to date a younger guy. but i felt as if i was baby sitting him.
thats the thing …
when a guy ages, he looks mature
when a lady ages, she just looks wrinkly
Lerr.. Age is juz a number.. Take it out from the equation. And u’ll have the most stable equation u ever had!! =)
err that means underage & overage ppl also under that equation :p
Older man rocks! Yes I am biased. I married a younger woman. Heheheh! :)
speaking from experience, thanks bro
DOM’s 7 yrs my senior.. so where do u think i’m standing.. haha
anyway DOM don’t look that old … he got that boi-boi look
its my first time , im with someone who is 2 years younger than me. so far ok lah alhamdulilah, cuma certain things sakit hati jugak lah, but thats part n parcels.. i dated few guys older than me,those 1978 above, even 10 years older also got but all psycho… all very possessive… haha!!! depends lah, its just my luck that whenever im with someone older, things screwed up…it really depends… i hope mine last, else if no jodoh, i will want someone older who is not a psycho!
i’m sure it will turn out ok
yanni boleh!
really meh? if not then how…
think positive la
Hrmmm i guess its more of a … if ure on the same wavelength.. like my kakak sedara says.. “kalau ada chemistry.. ok lah tu” hahahaaha.. but just beware…
date someone too old.. and u mite get wrinkly old balls.. hahahahahaa
i guess too old reserves for the pakcik kan
oops that includes me! haha
Wow… Someone younger by 10 years. Not bad ah sha. heheh. Hope your mojo’s still working by the time she matures. :P
Talking about age difference, there’s Siti Nurhaliza who married someone 20 years older. lolx. From the way I see it, just imagine yourself at age 20, and seeing your future wife just born into the world. It seems kinda weird doesn’t it? Other than that, suka hati lah… Jodoh tak ke mana.
why are you asking about my mojo … haha
yeah Datuk K is a lucky dude. it seems she’s happy, look at her size now
haha yes that did cross my mind, so if i’m ten years old, my date was just born!
whooops…
i read the title of this post and i went “now, there couldn’t be a better time!”.
Well, certain people have gone thru particular experiences in life that affects their view in this regard.
(here onwards, i apologize if i step on anyone’s toes..)
There wuz a time that i thought that nah, i wouldn’t go for sumone ard my age.
Cuz y? Too immature, and not stable.
And after that, i thought that even sumone 6 yrs older than me can show the same degree of “maturity” as sumone my age.
Now, i’m blissfully together with sumone 17 yrs my senior.
Yes, i’m not kidding.
(tho he looks much younger!)
Even one of my close gfs told me recently that she sees herself settling down with sumone much older, say, more than 10 years?
I dunno, mayb it’s jez us gals. I find that most of us in my close grp of gfs, we are all going out with older guys.
So guys..?
U do the math ;)
Thanks for sharing
Yeah i can tell you’re ‘glowing’ from your pics … abih so ‘happy’ malas blog ker. haha
Finally you found someone to share your whole life with :-)
My pleasure..
I may be ‘glowing’, but others aren’t, you see.. So that really explains the lack of entries. Though i know i shldn’t let that hinder me, but i guess i’m cowardly that way. Oh well, it’ll come back, soon enuf.
My whole life with? U think so?
Insyallah… :)
Hmm well these people should be happy for you, why must like that eh. Let them be la
yeah why not your whole life :-)
older man any time of the day! =)
woohoo good to know
I didnt think I’d date a younger guy.
Ah but,
my bf is younger than me.
Not by alot la.
Dating younger man for a woman isnt bad at all.
Come to think of it, I’d say Ive met more immature older guys than my bf.
So Im guessing it depends on the guy himself.
N hello,
10 YEARS GAP?!?
Sumpah tanak kalah eh :)
true age sometimes might not be a factor at all
say if your friends want a great date, i got this grandpa i know who’s still single
i am with a guy 6 yrs my senior.. i thought things wont work out but so far so good.. hopefully it will stay that way.. i guess older guys more mature.. much wiser..thats what i see in him la.. i had a crush on a guy 12 yrs my senior then i thought he’s too old, and it would be funny to date him..
eh imagine,my guy was primary 6 and i was only K 2.. imagine a primary 6 dating a k2 girl..wahaha..
sorry for late comment.. my internet explorer keeps failing to open your website..it keeps saying that it cannot open your website..so i get tired of reopening your web again n again.. so my comment lambat ya..
Ohh thanks for sharing. The main thing is be happy with who you are and comfortable
do you always get this error?
it was quite often..but today i didnt have it at all..
hmm glad no more error :-)
agr isnt e matter
its e maturity of e mind n intellectual tat is mor impt
if u aint secure enuf 4 us, its a no go!
well said .. lama tak nampak seh
hows your new job?
my parents are 3 yrs apart
although my mom FIRMLY believes, the bigger the age gap, the better. but of course, not exceeding 15yrs lah…hahahah she has this mentality like…the guy is 50 and the wife is 40….he may be old and she’s still young. therefore, less likely to leave the wife or cheat on her.
to me, if the guy wants to cheat…he’s gonna fucking cheat. damn bastard! hahahaha and same for girls who wanna cheat. if pple are going to cheat, it’s gonna happen. no matter what the age gap
and there is nothing wrong with an older girl. i used to date a few guys younger than me…but it’s all personal preferences really….
ahh interesting POV. i don’t mind getting a young bride infact, muahaha.
yes i’ve heard from 1st hand account bapak2 who are devote to their wife but still cheats on them. i don’t know how they can live with that
good to know you date both age phase. young and mature. how about the old?
aiyaaaahhhhh..
older or younger men..age are just numbers lahh..it’s the maturity that count..
i have dated man who are more than 10 ten years younger then me lahh..no issue..he boost my ego and my moral too, i like that
so what with the age? hahahha…but i play my part too lah..i can be a makchique, but i passed the ROV inspection, can still be on the road for another 10 years, i only need to renew my COE membership at the gym lahh….and i have met and dated older man with 16years old just reach purberty mentality..what a turn off!! for heaven sake!! har..
but i can say, most younger men are not as mature … yup coming from a guy. i know!
ROV inspection but included in conversation … keke. as long pass, thats the bottomline kan :p