I think my fear as a blogger is that one of my ex still reads my blog.
I mean we went our separate ways but they’re still interested to know the going-ons in your life.
So kepoh
We did the compromise, we the did the argument, we did the fight and finally things don’t work out, so you split.
You’ve accepted you was at fault partly over the sour relationship, and now the ex want to be friends after the split, and keep tabs on you? Right ….
For me, once we’re seperated, I don’t want to be part of that life anymore, you know.
To me, you can’t really make it return to normal kinda friends platonic relationship level; whatever they call it, after breaking up.
I just can’t. It just feels weird.
I don’t know about other, well that’s just me.
n i thought i was the only one that thought like this…. :)
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HRmmmm.. i still talk to my ex’s.. although most of them usually tegoh me first.. i think those who keep tabs of you still havent let go even if they say they did.. either way.. yes its a life u wanna leave behind.. but the world is too small to avoid anybody.. 50 years down the track history could repeat with ure grandkids.. so why not just keep it nice between both parties eh?!
well sometimes it’s just possible to keep nice .. you know, shite happens
for me, “as long they don’t disturb me, I won’t disturb them”
Hahh! I think that’s the only way how the EX can catch up and kpo about our new life, and feels rather sucky, that our life with the new someone is much better and successful in that sense. :D
with every new relationship, i think it gets better? .. but i’m not saying, go out there get new partner, then dump them over n over again. My disclaimer :-)
I suppose we dont really what their intention is do we.For all you know maybe they really are Kepoh on the ongoings of your life as Wana says..Who really knows anyway.
But I do agree that its weird and a clean break is better…For me,I rather forget most of the time…
sometimes just knowing they visit your blog or their presence in plain sight by bumping, just conjure bad memories
yea forget is best
it’s true that the frenship is never quite like how it was in the first place. but think of it this way…if the ex visit your blog…it’s prob just one of the ways they can get to know what’s happening in your life without having to experience the awkwardness in asking you. i mean…even if things are never quite the same as before…you cant deny the fact that you were once frens before.
I would rather not they keep tabs on me
akward yes, that’s why i always wish never to bump into them
I supposed if u guys had a clean break up.. No harm u & Ur ex can still be fren rite?
if it’s that the case, yes I don’t mind
i still have an ex who is an avid reader of my blog, and i dont mind that he still keeps up with my life.
we still do keep in touch, at times. definitely not platonic.
but then if he really wants to be a kaypohchee, let him be. make sure he knows i can still be happy without him..
you’re quite the generous person
maybe i shouldn’t be all uptight about this
Oh bloody hell she still does! It’s funny isn’t it? You thought it was all over, then they come hanging around your blog like dirty, irritating flies, bringing with them disease and general nuisance!
women!
is she the one i know about? hehehe kpo mode here.
anyway im friends with most of my exes, even those who hurt me in the first place. like some of those commentors above said, the world is too small and i just find it tiring to harbour any huge negative feelings. i know one of the exes who really really hurt me does read my blog (even ask me for password haha), and it doesnt bother me, cuz hey, it shows him i can still be happy without him :)
I think you don’t know her … which one are you referring to?
I’m not harboring any ill feelings .. just don’t be kaypoh jer as spread nonsense about me
you got the right mentality. haha this old dog could learn a thing or two
eh u know i wanted to blog something like this..not just ex like i cant believe people who like hurt you and like hate you so much still read your blog.. like why ah? haha..
to me, an ex will always remain an ex..nothing more.
a good point there
people who has something against you, yet keep tabs .. maybe they’re digging at some dirt, you know, to mama drama later on using it against you
This entry macam familiar lah, Sha. Errr… I mean… never mind.
Anyway, exes cannot read ur blog ke? Come on, dude. Mebbe she just wants to read for the sake of reading. Let her lor.
bro it’s very hard for me to comment on your blog. at firefox it cant display the comment box properly
Hahah Sha, I know what you mean. It’s hard to even be friends again,, because what you did to get past the breakup was to commit yourself to disliking/hating her, somehow.
I think you’re fine with her reading your blog, but what you tak bleh tahan is the “let’s start all over again and just be friends”.
My suggestion: Blog about something that’ll piss her even more! Wahahaha look at this way…more free traffic for you!
I’m not that mean la … keke
same, i can nvr be and nvr want to be friends again with my exes.. it feels so weird and awkward. even though how much you tried to be friends or maybe aquaintance, you both will tend to have disagreements…
i have my ex’s, my ex bestfriend, my ex’s current gf, my ex’s ex gf, a lot of ex’s who reads my blog! damn it! kpo! i dont even check on them, why must they check on my life. then kalau diam diri takpa, ni tidak, hebohkan cerita, update sana sini like makcik headquarters… ah farklah, talk abt ex’s make my blood boil….
I really love your comments, Yanni. Hah. Keep up the lasering!!
I totally agree with u in all aspects!! Caya ah.
hahaha!!! Laser 24 hours jek saya ni.ish no good… hahah!!!
woah your case pretty much more worse than me
so many ex type
yo sha! hehe saw u walking along school of arts design media today :D
ahhh thats was me and my roomie
elo!
haha yes the men in tights! lol see u more ard school and enjoy ur sem k!
you enjoy yours too dude
In any case, one should just forget and move on. To keep dwelling in the past brings no profuts at all. I would say that to any ex’s of mine if I found out they read my blog.
Kalau bahasa kasar, kan dah tak suka, boleh belah la!
haha yes, that we i can agree on
if only i knew..but i don..
as long as they clicked on the ads, im fine wit it.
ads? … asal make money takper eh :-)
oh gosh.
i so feeeeel you on this one…
yes feeling feeeeling :-)
i go to my ex’s blog and i think he comes to mine too.. hmmz..
We are still friends la.. ocassionally he will ring me up for help. Apart frm that, nothing else lor..
I’m someone who can still be friends with ex la.. There’s a chinese saying that..if cannot be lover, we still can be friends..
well sometimes situation just makes it impossible to be friends … well you know
I think u too popular lah…that’s why ur ex still keepin tabs on u and see when u rake in the big bucks then she will ask to patch back!
Lol
where got popular
no la, still earning peanuts
Yeh, you’re right. Ex cannot be friend. The “how are you†things would always be half-baked. But this applies if you have found someone and she’s still single.
well still single here, hope you’ve much better luck than me :)