The worse kind of affair for a guy is to find out your girlfriend just had an affair with another woman. Malu yet kinky
I was reading couple of blogs and some of the entries have a recurring similarities. Emo-ing online about being dumped or bitching that their ex-significant other is seeing someone behind their back
I pity them of course, and the very question popped into my mind was “What Makes A Person Unfaithful”. Coming from personal experience, I’ve came close to being unfaithful myself, partly as I was curious and mainly flattered being given the attention by other gals *hidung I kembang besar last time tau*
But I believe it all boils down to each own individual. Hear me out
People have affairs and strays because their current relationship ain’t fulfilling for plenty of reasons unknown. It may be sex, love, loneliness, sadness, boredom, attention and even ego
So to say to ‘fall out of love’ with your current beau, you wander and seek out new prospects. It’s a normal reaction IMO but when you’ve come to realize you’re at a point of no-return with this new ‘affair’, its now up to each individual to decide to go ahead with the straying
Some of you might disagree of course, you might think such circumstances are beyond our control but for me you always have a choice. As you mature, you’ll get better with relationship and make more ‘well-informed’ choices; well for most people, some just don’t ‘grow-up’ as I notice
My advice before you have sex or fall in love with someone else, end your existing relationship first or work on it. It will save plenty of heartache, but then again, there will be lesser blogging ‘unfaithful’ entries for me to read online …. hmmmm that’s a toughie :p
