It’s OK being who you really are

Sha December 6, 2007 8

One is always never satisfied with how they look. We would always wish for a better nose or perhaps we’re slightly taller.

It’s such a crippling need where we view ourselves very harshly.

Due to this everyone at one point of time, we all suffers from low self esteem.

Well I did

But as I grew up, I know that to soften the stones of insecurity of mine, I need to view myself as a jewel that only need polishing on the inside.

I learned the attracting feature of mine and yours likewise on the outside is just a shell of who I am, far lesser in perspective to the spirit in me. I have accepted for who I am and how I look

There’s plenty of ladies out there who still tries to conform to other people’s appeal or media scrutiny. I’d say ladies be who you want to be, not as someone thinks you are or should be. For this Uncle, skinny, babat or otherwise, you are beautiful to me and I want you to know it

A few babat celebrities I envy

Carnie Wilson (Wilson Philips band fame)

Kristie Alley (Cheers show fame)

Queen Latifah (Rapper/Actress)

Wynona Ryder (Country Singer)

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I was raised on classic rock and ballads, so forgive me if I'm not quite the trance, house music kinda guy. I can't sing, but I can croak, and yes I do take request, only for that special one. My life story is revealed in details with spunky disposition at this personal blog of mine. I'd like to meet honest people who are fun, outgoing, upfront and not stressed! People with clean bathroom, tree huggers will be given higher priority and more attention of course.

8 Comments »

Shahneeza December 6, 2007 at 9:32 am - Reply

hello sha.. aw..so sweet ur last line..I used to have a very low self esteem cos i am not as slim as my other friends. i was short tempered cos of it. In fact it was just last year that i just felt so upset with myself.but i wanted to be happy..i didnt want to suffer anymore.. so no matter how i look i’ll just be happy that i am healthy and i’m sempurna. alhamdullilah.. hehe..i want to lose weight but i do not want it to be an unhappy process.and to the ladies out there, dont be too hard on yourself.. if you worry about what others think of you, then you are not living your life..if you worry abt guys, well, a guy who’s worth it all, accepts u no matter how u look..
- Uncle Sha December 7, 2007 at 11:51 am - Reply
  
  Guys who are sincere, will like you for who you are :)
Em December 6, 2007 at 9:49 am - Reply

Salaams

Well put and said!
- Uncle Sha December 7, 2007 at 11:53 am - Reply
  
  Hi Em!
moby December 6, 2007 at 11:11 am - Reply

For me, as Hugh Grant once said, “I prefer a bit of meat in my curry”. ;)

But whether fleshy or bony, what matters is the heart, not the errr …. waistline.
- Uncle Sha December 7, 2007 at 11:54 am - Reply
  
  always the one with a bag of wisdom quotes
Makchique December 6, 2007 at 5:40 pm - Reply

survival of the mankind depends on the ‘babat’ you know..hahaha..man can’t live on just bone..whahahhaha..long live all the females with babat!! …*bow*
- Uncle Sha December 7, 2007 at 11:55 am - Reply
  
  haha, well that’s wat my granny used to say too
  
  plus
  
  “jangan kao kahwin tulang, aku nak cucu”