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	<title>Comments on: Matters of the Heart</title>
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		<title>By: Uncle Sha</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-36910</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncle Sha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jun 2007 13:05:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yupz madam! got the message crystal clear!

sometimes you go through that &#039;routine&#039; too often after too much failed attempt , you just give-up la

for now, i&#039;m just happy being single belapok, haha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yupz madam! got the message crystal clear!</p>
<p>sometimes you go through that &#8216;routine&#8217; too often after too much failed attempt , you just give-up la</p>
<p>for now, i&#8217;m just happy being single belapok, haha</p>
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		<title>By: asilah</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-36635</link>
		<dc:creator>asilah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jun 2007 19:38:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahahahaha.. ahahahaa.. ok i know im some random.. and its like a LATE reply.. but.. WHO wouldnt get that sentence.. MUHAHUAHUA.. and no.. dont question me.. i grew up wid many brothers.. nuff said!!.. goodluck in ur soul search.. all i can say is that.. yes.. fate does play a role.. but ultimately.. YOU play a role in ur fate.. if u want something.. u initiate your own fate.. comprehende?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahahahaha.. ahahahaa.. ok i know im some random.. and its like a LATE reply.. but.. WHO wouldnt get that sentence.. MUHAHUAHUA.. and no.. dont question me.. i grew up wid many brothers.. nuff said!!.. goodluck in ur soul search.. all i can say is that.. yes.. fate does play a role.. but ultimately.. YOU play a role in ur fate.. if u want something.. u initiate your own fate.. comprehende?!</p>
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		<title>By: heera</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-28322</link>
		<dc:creator>heera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2007 00:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>:P</p>
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		<title>By: Uncle Sha</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-27671</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncle Sha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2007 19:02:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Looks like you got it</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looks like you got it</p>
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		<title>By: heera</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-27593</link>
		<dc:creator>heera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2007 15:09:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think so. 

My mind has two version of understanding. One sexual, the other - well what the sentence say , it means just that.

Haha.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think so. </p>
<p>My mind has two version of understanding. One sexual, the other &#8211; well what the sentence say , it means just that.</p>
<p>Haha.</p>
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		<title>By: Uncle Sha</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-26482</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncle Sha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2007 17:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aahhh the &#039;list&#039;

well i used to do that, but i threw it out of the window when all the ladies i got to know didn&#039;t come close coming up to my expectation or i had to compromise that &#039;list&#039; because of her ... or she because of me

but i do agree on your notion that on the &#039;trust&#039; thingie. so far I&#039;ve not felt that in a long time

&quot;not implying you are gay&quot;, haha ... how did that come into the picture

i &amp; rudy might or might not go to KL ... have to see if my part-time job earns me enough $$moolassss$$</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aahhh the &#8216;list&#8217;</p>
<p>well i used to do that, but i threw it out of the window when all the ladies i got to know didn&#8217;t come close coming up to my expectation or i had to compromise that &#8216;list&#8217; because of her &#8230; or she because of me</p>
<p>but i do agree on your notion that on the &#8216;trust&#8217; thingie. so far I&#8217;ve not felt that in a long time</p>
<p>&#8220;not implying you are gay&#8221;, haha &#8230; how did that come into the picture</p>
<p>i &#038; rudy might or might not go to KL &#8230; have to see if my part-time job earns me enough $$moolassss$$</p>
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		<title>By: Uncle Sha</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-26478</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncle Sha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2007 16:49:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ada lah ...  itu! ituuuuuu</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ada lah &#8230;  itu! ituuuuuu</p>
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		<title>By: Uncle Sha</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-26476</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncle Sha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2007 16:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Like i blogged on an earlier entry ... it&#039;s a &#039;hit &amp; miss&#039; situation. If it doesn&#039;t work out, well another round of blind date lerrrrrrrrrr

you sure have your &#039;feeling-feeling&#039; aptly handled .. i&#039;m still getting to terms with it ... heh

good &#039;hunting&#039;!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like i blogged on an earlier entry &#8230; it&#8217;s a &#8216;hit &#038; miss&#8217; situation. If it doesn&#8217;t work out, well another round of blind date lerrrrrrrrrr</p>
<p>you sure have your &#8216;feeling-feeling&#8217; aptly handled .. i&#8217;m still getting to terms with it &#8230; heh</p>
<p>good &#8216;hunting&#8217;!</p>
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		<title>By: Uncle Sha</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-26475</link>
		<dc:creator>Uncle Sha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2007 16:43:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you get it mah? hahaha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you get it mah? hahaha</p>
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		<title>By: Laynie</title>
		<link>http://www.sha.tc/affection/wo-ai-ni/matters-of-the-heart#comment-26453</link>
		<dc:creator>Laynie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2007 15:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Firstly, make a list of a few (a FEW!!) really important issues you cannot compromise on. E.g. does she have to share your religion, how close to your family would you like her to be, are long-distance relationships okay etc. Try not to set rules for her looks/age/background as, honestly, these things don&#039;t quite matter in the long run.

The &#039;right&#039; partner would be the kind of person you feel that you can trust, almost automatically. Usually you will trust the people whose values are roughly compatible with yours. Also, he/she (haha not implying you are gay, just making this advice available to all) would, whenever there are disagreements (and there always are), settle things with you respectfully.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Firstly, make a list of a few (a FEW!!) really important issues you cannot compromise on. E.g. does she have to share your religion, how close to your family would you like her to be, are long-distance relationships okay etc. Try not to set rules for her looks/age/background as, honestly, these things don&#8217;t quite matter in the long run.</p>
<p>The &#8216;right&#8217; partner would be the kind of person you feel that you can trust, almost automatically. Usually you will trust the people whose values are roughly compatible with yours. Also, he/she (haha not implying you are gay, just making this advice available to all) would, whenever there are disagreements (and there always are), settle things with you respectfully.</p>
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