Fight or Flight

Sha October 18, 2007 45

Sample clip: Two girls in Times Square, KL practicing some judo moves


I’m sure some of you might have see this video clip somewhere.

Well it’s quite a shame there’s a Melayu in the scuffle.

And why am I showing it here then. Won’t it make it seem any worse with a blogger Melayu streaming it online criticizing his fellow Malay … erm Nope

Well is it a ‘show and shame’ entry then? … erm Nope

Yes, it’s none of the above lah. There’s in fact plenty of such videos, Malay, Indians, Chinese or any other ethnicity fights caught on film out there.

It just so happen, that one of my friend forwarded me the email with the clip and at the same time I was considering blogging about how to handle tense situation. So why not use it …

How would you actually resolve when you’re in such a situation yourself? I’m sure plenty of us have gotten into such fights, when we’re younger, rarer of course as we aged, being more mature and such situation only happens when the absolute is inevitable. Of course such physical encounter is only justified when you’re defending yourself and not the instigator

I think it takes a lot of balls to walk away rather than to start exchanging blows. When you’re at odds with someone, you naturally get angry. Studies have shown, when you get angry your IQ level drop. You become a moron. So the fella would likely get into a fight rather than have a sane decision to walk away

I’m learning human resource skills now and the lesson really taught me how my actions will reflect on me and others around me. Thus this entry. How would I handle such a situation. This could apply in the board room or the factory floor. I could become the mediator or the one fueling the fire, kinda making it worse. One’s imperative decision can affect how the outcome will be, being mainly in a leadership context.

In such situation, if you happen to walk away and resolved it maturely, then good for you. And if you decide to do ala Bruce Lee moment, let’s hope you don’t come out bad injured la. The next time I get into a tense situation, I promise to walk away. Come on now, chant with me, “Must walk away”

P.S I pity the chinese guy trying to be a mediator and stop the fight. He also got scratched and hit. Don’t be a kaypoh I say

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45 Comments »

  1. Edroos October 18, 2007 at 10:40 am - Reply

    That video highlights two morons engaged in a moronic duel. True what you said, it takes a real man to walk away. But at times, the moron inside always gets the better of you. My advise, only engage when you are very very sure you’ll win. Or else, be a REAL man and walk away!

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 11:02 am - Reply

      hah don’t we all have morons within us

      i say dun just walk away, moonwalk away … now you got style too

  2. moby October 18, 2007 at 10:53 am - Reply

    “Must walk away …. must walk away …. must walk away …. must walk away …. must walk away …. “.

    I think as we mature and grow older, we have more responsibilities, not only to ourselves but to others like our spouses, kids, etc. Getting involved in a fight and landing oneself in jail is not worth it.

    But when you’re young and a little hot-headed, the adrenaline rush of a full-blooded fist to the face does feel good.

    Now everybody sing, “You’ll never walk alone …. walk on, walk on ….. with hope in your heart ….. and you’ll never walk alone …. !” (You’ll never walk alone after a fight because kiri, kanan got policemen accompanying you).

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 11:04 am - Reply

      eh reds anthem pulak … betul offtopic seh

      ok will chant it next time

      you caught yest rus-vs-eng? crap game

      • Edroos October 18, 2007 at 3:52 pm - Reply

        ya la!! You all fight confirm you all won’t walk alone one!! Like moby said, got police accompany!!

        Eh England crap la. Leading by one goal concede 2 in 4 mins!! Like wth!!

        • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 5:37 pm - Reply

          i dunno what eng is thinking … i might as well become manager

          i & you can do better than mcclaren!!

          • yanni October 18, 2007 at 9:35 pm - Reply

            ok so the out of topic… bola bola bola… apa dah.. orang tengah syiok berbual pasal malaysia nye cat fight… ahahah!!! then you all bola..chet!

          • Uncle Sha October 19, 2007 at 7:25 am - Reply

            hahahaHAHAHA

          • Zuni October 19, 2007 at 4:03 pm - Reply

            supporting england is like being in a love/hate relationship lorrrr……… =(

          • Uncle Sha October 19, 2007 at 5:28 pm - Reply

            tell me about it

  3. cicak October 18, 2007 at 11:02 am - Reply

    you know what’s even more disturbing?

    the fact that the person recording the whole thing din even stop to help mediate the situation.

    heh

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 11:05 am - Reply

      true ah. never thought of it

  4. eddyboi October 18, 2007 at 11:18 am - Reply

    i find that clip kinda HOT!!!… most of the time, when i attend to such cases, the drama has ended… so im left with those people that ends up with bruise, scratches and cuts… THIS LIVE video is like super HOT!!! wahahahhahahahahahahahah

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 11:45 am - Reply

      i think you like violence dei

    • yanni October 18, 2007 at 9:39 pm - Reply

      hot!!! hot mama!!! hahah!!! mari kita tengok siapa yang menang – Ibrahim pendek roll the dice… hahaha!!!

  5. eddyboi October 18, 2007 at 11:19 am - Reply

    anyway, ur UTUBE account is suspended issit?????

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 11:45 am - Reply

      hmm yes i just found out … why hur

      • yanni October 18, 2007 at 9:35 pm - Reply

        i know why kena suspend….want to know?

        • Uncle Sha October 19, 2007 at 7:25 am - Reply

          why?

          • yanni October 19, 2007 at 11:10 am - Reply

            pasal you tube taknak ur videoclip joget depan computer maken roti dengan nutella… syiok sendiri… hahaha… ok so lame…. :P

          • Uncle Sha October 19, 2007 at 11:28 am - Reply

            lerr ingatkan aper

  6. m3rni3 October 18, 2007 at 12:17 pm - Reply

    i work at a place where peeps always thought id see lotsa happy couples .. but not necessarily so .. at times we see scuffles between couples and families too .. which would at times end up being a police case .. sad eh!

    but those two girls real lah .. now it reminded me of an incident during sec sch .. gosh .. shant elaborate .. hahaha

    im kewl now! . :-)

    salam lebaran to u uncle sha .. maaf zahir batin!

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 1:58 pm - Reply

      ahh memories .. good? or notty? :)

      yes same here … maaf zahir dan batin :)

      • m3rni3 October 18, 2007 at 2:13 pm - Reply

        hahha .. a notty one lah ..

        i was a rather quiet, reserved girl in school .. (an athlete too just like you) .. but people just get in my way and talked and bad mouthed me. So being a quiet, unpopular girl, I thought I just had to show some of my colours too .. I looked for the girl who had talked bad abt me .. found her in the loo .. gave her a piece of my mind plus a slap or two .. LOL ..

        ok ok .. those were the days!

        • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 2:22 pm - Reply

          wow, you really showed her i guess

          yup you got the right to show her something or two

          anyway maybe blog about it … keke

          maybe 5 years down the road, once you read it again … chuckles at ol good memories

          i doing the above, coz i also tend to forger. i blog about my nostalgia when i recall it

  7. Zuni October 18, 2007 at 3:27 pm - Reply

    wah, can shoot another episode of anak metropolitan or hanyut… hehehe…

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 5:37 pm - Reply

      keke oh my … i remember that show

      so kental!!

  8. khairul neezam October 18, 2007 at 4:42 pm - Reply

    GEREK SIOL! TAK BLEH ANGKAT ARHS.

    Catfights super gerek siol!!

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 5:38 pm - Reply

      keke … well it has its exciting moments bro

  9. Miss Ima October 18, 2007 at 7:31 pm - Reply

    HAhahahaha.. Buruk seh tu video clip!!! Mepek tol…. Yes, WALK AWAY and things will be fine enough… layan orang tengah marah..kita pun leh jadi biul sebab orang ngah marah tak leh pikir langsung..

    • Uncle Sha October 18, 2007 at 7:37 pm - Reply

      i guess for most people … easier said than done

      amacam raya? … i feel fat now for this week

      • Miss Ima October 18, 2007 at 11:35 pm - Reply

        Haha!!!!! plz dun mention the word fat to me.. i stress sia.. been jogging ever since 2nd day of raya oredi till now… everyone said i put on weight… and i got so stress over those remarks.. dat i realli went all out to do something about my WEIGHT!… grrrrr.. raya is fine.. hahaha.. my weekends are all book to attend openhouse… this will go on for one whole month of raya.. blearkz..

        • Uncle Sha October 19, 2007 at 7:31 am - Reply

          oops sorry

          lets both hit the treadmill soon :)

  10. yanni October 18, 2007 at 9:33 pm - Reply

    i saw this video a few days back in the office then i sent to you and some of my closed ones, takleh angkat seh.. i kept laughing at the indian girl.

    but at least the girl in white fight back seh. tak diam diri… hahah, they all merepek seh. but u know what, if i the girl , i will slap the indian girl and the one who records the video… hahah kurangajar pergi balik… the chinese guy so kesian…

    • Uncle Sha October 19, 2007 at 7:32 am - Reply

      fwah must record when you do that … but then you slap me too jugak eh, as i recording it. haha

  11. asilah October 19, 2007 at 3:52 am - Reply

    how splendid.. a beotch fite.. and yes i agree with an above comment.. it is disturbing that the person that was recording didnt stop to help or break it up.. I was wondering why throughout the whole clip.. N not til the gaurds came in did i think that the fite was actually unplanned..

    But i must say one thing.. both girls have a weak weak weak punch.. HUR HUR HUR!!.. ive seen ones more hardcore ;)

    • Uncle Sha October 19, 2007 at 7:36 am - Reply

      keke, you can do better … i offer my recording services

      • asilah October 20, 2007 at 12:53 am - Reply

        of course i can do better… im a national boxing champion!! hahahahahaa.. NOT.. growing up with an older brother and 4 male cousins ard his age.. i was the object of bullying… hahahaha.. so yes… when can we pick a fight with somone?~

        • Uncle Sha October 20, 2007 at 5:56 am - Reply

          wah would like you in my corner in any fight then

  12. malique October 21, 2007 at 9:41 am - Reply

    i prefer not get physical.
    mediate the situation in a mannered way.

    but if the guy is starting to be really irritating, i might say hello with a headbutt ala zidane. :P

    • Uncle Sha October 21, 2007 at 10:22 am - Reply

      the things about head-butt … after that you’ll get redcarded … keke

  13. Hidayah October 22, 2007 at 12:18 pm - Reply

    i wont fight back.. walk away.. and then stalk her home. get her add.. report police and sue.. haha.. sue for public harrasment! weee

    • Uncle Sha October 22, 2007 at 2:14 pm - Reply

      nifty idea … didn’t thought of that!

  14. nor April 1, 2008 at 1:41 am - Reply

    omg!!! i felt disturbed by these 2 girls fight in public, not caring who was watching… i would definitely walk away when someone confront me a matter that was none of my concern…. it’s for low life people to fight especially for girls as young as them…. yes, as you said, it will take a lot of courage to walk away as some may think of you as coward but, it’s better to be safe rather than have my hair-do pulled, my dolled up face punched and my shopping mood spoilt…. i fought before and looking back, it was really a stupid thing to do. each and every problem can be talk and it will be resolved.

    • Uncle Sha April 1, 2008 at 9:12 am - Reply

      We were all young and brash once

      Well we all learn, that’s all that matters kan

      Welcome to the blog :)

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