As the saying goes, “Looks can sometimes be deceiving”.
This is so when human nature would usually always “size up” a person within that second of a glance by how that person portrayed himself with his outlook or behavior.
We all do, and most of the time, truth be told, our assumption are always wrong.
The thing is, I was chatting up a lady friend on MSN awhile back and she mentioned that she assumed from the way I’m heavily built, and the sporty activities that I’m involved, she assumed that I’m a ‘bruiser‘.
You know, the rough, macho-man, loud talking kind.
She was kinda surprised when I didn’t match up to that when we met.
Those close to me will know in-fact I’m quite the opposite. I’m quiet, don’t like to be the center of attention, hates crowds (unless it’s clubbing ;-p), soft-spoken and I prefer to be in the background and low profile rather than being in the “spotlight”.
All of us are unique in our own ways and different due to our upbringing and culture, so I guess the next time you go about harboring any assumption about anyone, well bear in mind of another famous saying, which goes like this, “Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups”
shah, you tak pernah tau blog emotionally, i mean this entry is not emo but have the potential to be emo soon you know , like me pyschotic emotional girl who always blog angrily whenever that woman at my office agitates me.
by the way, if “Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups” – did the meet up turn out negative or positive? hope not. i tend to assume too but I ALWaYS assume that people can be trust lah, good lah, sekali – jeng jeng jeng, kena cukup2 beta you.
i hate crowded places! but clubbing, hehehe!!! *evil grin*
haha is this considered an emo post. well it’s just a random thought
well its normal to lash out if you’re angry per
well too much trust can be bad
haha, i thought you dah retire from clubbing?
retire – not really. i mean i dah retired drinking. but clubbing, onceeeeeeeeeeee in a blue moon..
aaahhh dats gd ;-p
rough, macho-man, loud talking kind? she should read ur blog often man. u’re the total opposite online.
well i may be quiet but i’ve plenty on my mind, thus the blog
but i’m friendly, once i’m cosy with you, i’ll chatter non-stop
Hehe. I somehow always buttoned you in as the shy quiet type. Even though you’re fun and an athlete and all. DEFINITELY not a bruiser.
awwww thanks babe .. ;-)